A woman’s orgasm is the most beautiful moment of sex. Keeping this moment still and retaining this beauty forever is what every woman wants to have. In your sexual life, men must learn to lead women’s orgasm to the commanding heights to make your sexual life more enjoyable. Orgasm is important for women, and it is also important for men. The beauty of orgasm requires some Method guidance.
Take off your clothes, just start complimenting me
From my practical research, it is very difficult for women who worry about the appearance of their lower body to reach orgasm during oral sex. A recent scientific study also revealed that women who are not confident or embarrassed about their bodies not only have less sexual experience, but also are not confident in their sexual abilities. It’s very obvious that you can get everything by complimenting a woman. If you like how she looks naked, share that opinion with her.
Breasts wander around, gentleness comes first
During foreplay, lightly brush the tops, sides, and undercarriages of her breasts; these areas need more sensitivity than the areolas and nipples. Watch how she reacts as you gradually move toward her nipples. If she gets aroused, her nipples will become engorged with blood, and the sensory nerves there will want to explode from direct touch. This way you’ll increase her blood flow and vaginal lubrication so she can start getting better.
Learn that crucial touch
Many women like nothing more than slowly building up pleasure for her when you masturbate for her. Here’s how to do it. Lying next to her, place the back of your hand lightly over her clitoris, then place your ring and middle fingers on her outer labia. Rub the skin there gently at first, adding more pressure as she gets more aroused. Your palm around her clitoris can provide indirect contact – most women are too sensitive and don’t like direct clitoral contact in the first place. When she starts to get aroused, place your hand on her vagina and use the middle and tips of your fingers to tease her clitoris with the rhythm of your palm.
Change your angle
You can try different ways to stimulate her and find the one that turns her on the most. Your first stop: the g-spot, which is located 2.5–5 centimeters above the vagina. This soft spot swells with excitement. Try massaging here slowly with your fingers. Many women feel that this will make them reach the sky. Doesn’t she like it? Then try something else.
Kill two birds with one stone
In order for her to achieve maximum pleasure, it is necessary to extend the contact with her sensitive parts more. Here’s one way to fuck her completely crazy. Have her lie down on her back, spread her legs, and then climb on top of her, wrapping your arms around her shoulders and supporting her upper body on your elbows, with your chest at her chin. The idea is to bring the lower part of your penis into contact with her clitoris. Rub slowly, focusing on the up-and-down motion rather than in and out. Another great tip is to use the top ridge of your penis to rub circles on her clitoris, or use an up-and-down motion. This allows you to take a break from the high intensity of contact, and it also allows her to feel your focus – which is the most important thing for women.
Learn to feel her coming orgasm
Entering the oral sex phase does not mean assault. Start by kissing her thighs lightly, as well as her inner and outer labia, then use your tongue to lick deeper and more vigorously, over a large area. Watch the rhythm of her hips and see what kind of rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you use different oral sex techniques. Then observe the signs of her approaching orgasm, such as the color of her labia quickly turning dark red due to the inflow of large amounts of blood. Or put a hand on her abdomen. As she approaches orgasm, her abdominal muscles will immediately begin to contract continuously.
Follow her lead
Once you get close to climax, even if someone is blowing a trumpet next to you, you keep going until you climax. But your woman may suddenly shut down near orgasm when you change positions and frequency. We’re more than happy to try variations if you want, and a variety of techniques are very effective, but once you notice we’re approaching climax, stay with the status quo until we reach the finish line.
Let her have fun first
It’s admirable that two people can orgasm at the same time, but many women – especially women with super-sensitive clitoris – respond very well to the “ladies first” rule. If you touch your clitoris for a long time at the beginning, it will make her feel pain and lose sensitivity during masturbation and oral sex. So before having sex, you need to help her climax first.
Reaching orgasm during sex is something every woman dreams of and can achieve, but if we want to have a more satisfying orgasm and experience better pleasure, we need to make some adjustments, and we can do it by using these methods.