Regarding the physiological characteristics of both sexes, men are destined to take the initiative and lead in the life of a couple. However, making women happy first is destined to be a reliable way for men to be happier.
Woman, do you really understand orgasm?
About 50% of married women say they have never experienced orgasm, and this is just what a questionnaire shows, if you communicate face-to-face with women who think they have experienced orgasm. We will also find that the orgasms they thought they had were far from the orgasms they thought they had.
A woman who has been married for 7 years said that she can have two or even three orgasms every time she is married. However, further conversation revealed that this woman, who was so confident in the quality of her couple’s life, actually regarded the man’s ejaculation as her “orgasm.” This kind of ignorance and lack of desire for orgasm often comes at the same time as the boring feeling of married life. If the husband misunderstands his wife’s feelings, the wife’s aversion to sex will take the opportunity to invade her heart, and then the wife’s disgust will take the opportunity to invade her heart. Further, frigidity will appear, and a harmonious and pleasant life as a couple will become a fantasy.
Men, do you care about how women feel?
A man’s climax can be obtained entirely based on the pleasure of his penis, and women often need psychological help. A warm and romantic man can mobilize all the feelings of a woman. A relaxed woman, a woman enveloped in warmth, a woman intoxicated with romance, all her sensory cells will be in a good state of acceptance and experience, so it is not difficult for us to Understand why sometimes, a deep and affectionate kiss accompanied by caressing can actually make a woman reach her heights.
An impatient husband is often a loser, because he only cares about his own local happiness, but ignores the woman’s feelings. A successful couple’s life should allow women to fully enjoy their orgasms.
A man should understand that the vagina he is interested in is not what a woman is interested in, and the pleasure nerves there are not very rich. And it is the clitoris and labia that make many men feel ugly visually and psychologically, which embodies all women’s expectations for sexual happiness. A friend in his 30s knew this very well, but during the conversation I discovered that he had never thought of caressing his wife’s vagina. Knowing but not doing it is either impossible or unwilling!
Whether a woman can achieve orgasm depends largely on the man, and even entirely on whether the husband cares about his wife.
Man’s penis, man’s love
What surprises me is that there are so many men who think their penises are short and have low self-esteem. During the enthusiastic consultation, almost all the men complained that their penises were not large enough to satisfy their wives. Is penis size really that important? Text about sex reinforces the idea that it doesn’t matter what your penis looks like. But on the other hand, there are also voices of women complaining because their husband’s penis is not “up to par.”
Instead of avoiding the importance of male penis “size” in women’s pleasure, it is better to think about how to satisfy women in the case of “congenital deficiencies”. We can’t decide what it looks like, but we can decide our love, and love can make up for everything.
I do think that the “specification” of a man’s penis is more important to the wife’s psychology. The super-stretched shape itself can give women strong visual stimulation and mobilize active sexual excitement. On this basis, the pleasure will naturally be intense. There are no pleasure nerves at the end of the vagina, but women often become extremely excited when their penis touches the edge of the uterus. This is also psychological.
Men with small penises must first abandon their inferiority complex. Inferiority will only make the life of a couple worse, but a confident man can make a woman intoxicated. A loving man will find ways to transcend the limitations of his penis and use other ways to satisfy his wife.
Woman, how long does it take to be satisfied?
Confused men often consult me and ask: How long does it take for a woman to reach orgasm? He always ejaculates in seven or eight minutes, what should he do?
It is impossible for women to have a unified standard for time requirements, and the same woman will not always reach climax at the same time. The climax experience is a picky “child”. Whether the caressing is sufficient and whether the excitement level reaches the limit determines the sooner or later it will arrive. What a man who cares about a woman’s feelings should do, first of all, is to “stand your ground” before the woman climaxes. Men will say: It’s easy to say it, but it’s hard to control yourself when the time comes. Again, the key is love.
In fact, every man has the ability to control time. The question is whether he wants to control it, or whether he can “step back” rationally when that wonderful experience is just around the corner. It also depends on whether you really care about your wife’s feelings.
Recently, articles have talked a lot about the harm of “holding back without ejaculating”. In fact, for a man who is good at controlling, what he is doing is not holding back without ejaculating, but how to delay the arrival of the moment of imminent “collapse”. If the bow is not fully drawn, why can’t you endure it and not shoot? Men should learn to experience happiness in the process instead of always focusing on the moment of ejaculation. Men who learn to experience joy in the process will find that the joy in the process will be far greater than the joy of ejaculation.
Women who truly understand the joy of sexual intercourse will have various wonderful performances that will ultimately exceed men’s expectations, allowing them to gain far more happiness than when they only care about themselves. Letting a woman reach orgasm first is a goal that a smart man sets when sex begins. He understands that women who have experienced orgasm will often repay him exponentially.
Making a woman happy first is destined to be the happiest way for a man.
Men or women, who is responsible?
A friend complained that his wife was frigid. This friend told me with absolute certainty that he was great, both in terms of penis size and duration, and that he was very romantic. “But,” he said, “she always demanded it be over quickly, refused to kiss, refused to change positions.”
I really thought the problem was with my friend’s wife until I communicated with you.
Sex is a matter between a man and a woman, so two people share the responsibility for a failed sexual relationship. However, the counselor believes that men should shoulder more, if not all, of the responsibility. Because of the physiological characteristics of men and women, men often take the initiative and lead in the life of a couple.
Romance is not destined to show warmth, and strength may bring rudeness. There’s definitely something wrong with that friend, and the problem may simply be that he doesn’t care enough about his wife. An eagerness for success, a reluctance, and a recklessness may all accumulate the sound and shadow of frigidity. I believe that friend never asked which action would make his wife happier when he was doing it. Lack of communication is the biggest danger. The lack of communication may be due to ignorance or shyness. The deeper reason is still due to insufficient care for your partner.
When we talk about men’s responsibilities, women cannot neglect theirs either. As a wife, you should openly communicate with your husband about your feelings during sex, tell him your desires directly, and tell him what you need and what you hate.
If you care about each other, you will definitely have a wonderful orgasm!